Have you ever faced a tough customer enquiry? A difficult question about a product that you didn’t really know anything about? Wanted to write an awesome product description but didn’t really know where to start? In this blog series we will collect some handy information for you on product types, their uses and functions and different kinks that you can – or might already – cater to.

Our newest series will cover the emerging trend of anal play and the bestselling products you can offer to your customers who are looking to get into some backdoor play – whether they want to experience their first prostate massage assisted orgasm or they want to push their limits with extreme anal stretching. We will cover the taboo-breaking emergence of pegging as well as the best ways to lubricate and remain hygienic when indulging in bum-pleasures.

This is the first entry to a 5-part series about anal play, the next part will be posted next week, so watch this space!

Prostate Massage

Essential in the production of semen and playing a fundamental part in sexual arousal for men, the prostate gland is located close to the anterior wall of the rectum. It can be stimulated both from the outside via the perineum (also known as the “taint” area between the testicles and the anus) or the inside with direct, targeted massage.

Often dubbed as the “male G-spot”, stimulation of the prostate gland can result in explosive and even hands-free orgasms felt in the entire body (similarly to women’s G-spot orgasms). It can also be implemented into foreplay to create intense arousal and so-called “dry orgasms” that do not require a refractory period, making multiple climaxes possible. It is also suggested by sex therapists that prostate massage can provide men with the opportunity to discover the same kind of liberating vulnerability that comes with penetrative sex for women, opening new dimensions of sexuality and satisfaction that were largely taboo for heterosexual men even just a decade ago in mainstream cultures.

Prostate massage also has health benefits as it increases blood flow to the pelvic area which promotes stronger and long-lasting erections and provides cancer-prevention to an extent. As an enlarged prostate can cause erectile dysfunction, difficulty in urination and can lead to cancer, “milking” the prostate regularly can reduce this swelling. Urologist experts recommend prostate massage once a month for those with a healthy prostate, and once a week for those with an enlarged gland to improve sexual performance and prevent cancer.

Finding & Stimulating the Prostate

A healthy prostate is between the size of a walnut and a plum and it is located about 3-4 inches inside the rectum, behind the penis. The gland fills with fluids, becomes firmer and larger during arousal, so it’s easier to find after some introductory foreplay, oral stimulation, stroking or masturbation. The prostate can be stimulated manually with the insertion of a finger or with the help of sex toys – either with dedicated prostate massagers or other anal toys.

Toys designed specifically for the stimulation of the prostate often curve at the tip to target the gland directly and are generally slimmer than vaginal stimulators for greater comfort. While most modern prostate massagers provide vibrations to increase and enhance sensations, non-vibrating options are also available for those seeking a smoother experience and do not want to fiddle with buttons. It’s also worth noting that toys with a thinner, more pointed tip are primarily recommended to experienced users as the stimulation targets a smaller area creating more intense sensations and pleasure.

Other anal toys like butt plugs and probes with flared bases can also offer a great way to explore prostate massage as these can be left inside for added stimulation during masturbation or even intercourse when the already contracting rectal muscles help the toy put extra pressure on the gland.

Either way, lubrication is essential and appropriate anal lube should always be applied generously before the insertion of any toy, plug, massager or finger(s). The stimulation itself should involve light repetitive massage in circular motions rather than thrusting, as this is safer and more effective in the arousal of the gland and creates a more pleasurable sensation – this is a fundamental difference from simple anal stimulation that engages the sensitive nerve endings around the anal opening without focusing specifically on the prostate.

Now that you are a prostate expert, here are three bestselling prostate massagers that you can offer to your customers who would like to explore the most explosive type of male orgasms possible:

Rocks Off Quest Prostate Bullet – on the frontlines of bringing prostate pleasure to men everywhere, one of Rocks Off’s newest massagers is ideal for beginners both in size and functionality. Slim and shaped like a finger, the Quest was designed with prostate newbies in mind who are looking for the most comfortable and convenient product to use. This bullet offers smooth insertion and easily adjustable vibrations and it’s also 100% waterproof and easy to clean, making it a perfect toy to explore prostate play solo or even with a partner as part of foreplay.

Rocks Off Ro-Zen Pro – this jack-of-all-trades product offers targeted prostate massage while also ensuring a long-lasting and powerful erection with a cock and ball strap and even features stimulation nodules for the perineum. Comes with a rechargeable 10 speed bullet vibrator, the Ro-Zen Pro is ideal to use during intercourse but compliments solo play perfectly too. For the more power-hungry, you can upsell a Loving Joy Power Bullet to your customers that they will be able to use with the toy for an amazing additional 20 functions and fully waterproof fun.

Svakom Vick Remote Control Prostate Massager – on the higher end of the range, Svakom offers a truly exquisite option for prostate massage with the Vick which is remote controlled for convenient solo or thrilling coupled play, and provides simultaneous prostate and perineum stimulation. Equipped with Svakom’s Intelligent Mode, the Vick is ideal for anyone who would like to invest in a high quality, stylish luxury massager that is sized to satisfy both beginners and pros of prostate play.

Pro Tip: September is Prostate Cancer Awareness Month each year, and the symbol for prostate cancer solidarity is a light blue ribbon. Start advocating, educating and informing your customers of this event early and offer them a way to keep tabs on their prostate health with a prostate massager. Being comfortable and familiar with how their bodies work and feel like can help early detection and makes their GPs’ job easier too!

That concludes our first entry about Anal Play, but don’t forget to check back soon for our next post about Pegging.

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