Have you ever faced a tough customer enquiry? A difficult question about a product that you didn’t really know anything about? Wanted to write an awesome product description but didn’t really know where to start? In this blog series, we will collect some handy information for you on product types, their uses and functions and different kinks that you can – or might already – cater to.

Our newest series will cover the emerging trend of anal play and the bestselling products you can offer to your customers who are looking to get into some backdoor play – whether they want to experience their first prostate massage assisted orgasm or they want to push their limits with anal stretching or double penetration. We will cover the taboo-breaking emergence of pegging as well as the best ways to lubricate and remain hygienic when indulging in bum-pleasures.

This is the fourth entry to a 5-part series about anal play, you can view our first post about prostate massage here, the second part about pegging here, the third entry about butt plugs here, or watch this space for the next entry to be posted next week!

Double Penetration

While threesomes (MMF is the most relevant here) are a popular fantasy with both men and women, double penetration can actually happen in a variety of ways. It can involve two penises inserted into one orifice, one penis entering vaginally and one anally, one penis and one toy/butt plug, two toys during solo play, two strap-on dildos penetrating either a woman or a man; the variations are almost endless. So, while pornography popularized the view that double penetration can only mean two men penetrating a woman simultaneously, this is far from the truth.

DP creates a deeply full, stretching sensation for women and a tighter experience for men, making the act (if done right) pleasurable for either sex to participate in. Women often enjoy the total surrender of power and control over their pleasure to a partner or partners while various erogenous zones are stimulated simultaneously that can result in mind-blowing orgasms. If the double penetration is divided between the vagina and the anus, the vaginal wall, for example, receives pressure from two sides, massaging all the sensitive nerve endings there as well as continuously hitting the G-spot. Men, on the other hand, can often feel the other object or penis through the vaginal wall creating increased stimulation for them, and if a vibrator is used in the act, they will be able to sense the buzz providing them with added pleasure.

Double Whammy – A Few Tips

Double penetration requires a lot of preparation, discussion and experimentation to get it right. Whether your customers wish to check DP off from their sex bucket list with their partners, or they are curious to try the sensation alone, they will need to consider some of the following:

• Depending on their level of experience in anal play, they will need to decide if they want to involve back door pleasures in their DP experiment or rather stick with vaginal penetration and double up.
• Either way, lubrication, communication and relaxation are crucial. Recommend a long-lasting lubricant that will provide some padding like the Sliquid Organics Natural Gel Thick lubricant as this will minimize the risk of tearing and other friction related injuries.
• Having an orgasm before the “double feature” can help women relax both the pelvic and anal muscles so some oral sex is highly recommended before diving in to ensure maximum comfort and enjoyment.
• If your customers would like to try DP with their partners but without involving another person (and, therefore, another penis), or perhaps alone, they can choose from plenty of toys, that can stand in for the real thing without taking away from the experience.
• The size of each toy – whichever type of double penetration is on the table – needs to be considered carefully. If using anal toys, these should be smaller even for customers experienced in anal play. During a DP scenario, the fullness felt is more intense and items seemingly small can feel a lot larger when the neighbouring hole is filled too and both openings have limited space to stretch and expand to.
• Realistic dildos are great as they simulate the shape, texture and even firmness of a real penis, and most come with a suction cup base making the physical logistics of positioning easier too. This might be an ideal solution for couples fantasizing about a real threesome, but don’t want to commit to finding a suitable third wheel without experimenting with an additional penis first.

Speaking of positioning, doggy style, cowgirl, missionary and spooning can all work really well. For example, with doggy style, the partner can enter anally and a vibrator or dildo can be inserted vaginally, or if the partner enters vaginally, they can easily hold a butt plug in place with one of their hands.

Butt plugs in general are great to start out with double penetration as many are designed to remai in place once inserted as the sphincter muscles close on the slim neck part of the plug. You can find a lot more information on butt plugs in our previous blog entry, here.

• For coupled DP action, your customers might be best off with a dildo that can be strapped on or worn like a cock ring and provides the male partner with an extra attachment to penetrate with. Men will enjoy the sight of their extra appendix and women will be thrilled to see the extra poker ready to give them pleasure.

With all this in mind, here are three bestsellers that can introduce your customers to the ecstasy of burning the candle at both ends:

Ultimate Double Penetrator Ring – one ring to rule them all, this enhanced cock ring provides an extra shaft for your customers to play with. Being able to choose what goes where will be very important for any aspiring DPist, and with this versatile toy, they can do just that – the ring can be worn either on top of or underneath the penis, so it can be used for either vaginal or anal penetration while the male partner can take care of the other end of the deal. The ring also comes with two removable bullet vibrators that offer orgasmic buzz in both the shaft and at the base for clitoral or testicular stimulation so no need or desire will remain unsatisfied.

King Cock Double Penetrator – ruling over the realistic dildo market, the King Cock dongs are exquisitely life-like both in appearance and texture. So, if your customer would like to try the sensation of being penetrated by two penises at the same time, this is as close they can get without actually involving two other human phalluses. Comes with a super-strong suction cup for hands-free solo play and it is also harness compatible for some kinky strap-on fun.

Power Stud Waterproof Double Penetrator Dong – perfectly shaped and sized for double penetration, this Power Stud vibrator offers two curved shafts and three powerful vibration settings. The smaller shaft is ideal for novice anal penetration with just an inch girth, while the larger shaft will provide the full sensation that your customers are looking for with 5.5 inches in length for delicious vaginal penetration. This toy is perfect for customers who want to try DP by themselves or for coupled foreplay before the real deal.

Pro Tip: Experience players always recommend to approach DP with a sense of humour – positioning can be awkward, body parts and limbs will just not behave the way they are expected to and toys and/or penises might pop out from their designated orifices. So apart from truckloads of lube, patience, communication, foreplay and relaxation, put a healthy amount of playfulness on your customers’ must-have list when they ask you about DP.

That concludes our fourth entry about Anal Play, but don’t forget to check back soon for our next post about Hygiene and Lubrication.

Have any suggestions about what we should cover next? Struggling with any product type specifically? Have any feedback on this guide? Let us know in the comments section below, we would love to hear from you!